Tuesday, January 22, 2013

Why Words Are Great Indicators For Our Heart

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Poetry has been called the language of love or the heart's speech, but any form of spoken word can make the heart respond in kindness. There are those who have spent a king's ransom trying to show affection, yet, end up parting ways. Since the heart's true meaning cannot be measured in material or tangible things; why would mere words be adequate enough to reveal what is really at the core of how we feel? People lie everyday. Why should you believe words coming from the heart would make the difference? Well, the truth lies in knowing what words really are and the meaning behind them. The heart and words are so intertwined that they cannot help but be the perfect conduit for its sentiments. Follow along as we unravel this unnecessary mystery.

First off, you have to understand the origin of words. Infants begin their lives using noise to communicate with us. Our minds were far too underdeveloped to hold onto what those cries meant on into adulthood. Parents learn to investigate why their child is crying. When was the last time I fed them? Did the temperature change? Is their diaper soiled? Did another child enter their room and do something to them? These are easy things to pick up on. When a parent cannot come to a logical conclusion to continued crying, they go to the doctor for answers. So grunts and noises are not the best way to communicate. However, words are perfectly formed to carry our sentiments. That is exactly what they do.

Words are actually containers. Though our emotions are an immediate gauge of how our mental and physical state is, they can be somewhat misleading. You can show anger, happiness, sadness or scared emotions and never get to the real reason to the problem. Emotions are only a symptom of an issue and they can change like the wind. On the other hand, words can bypass all that clutter and pin point with laser precision what the problem is. No other medium of communication can do that with such surgical execution. As I stated earlier, people lie and some are very good at it. However, all things being equal, words will even unravel the lies that people tell. It is easy to keep up a lie when people are responding to it in action. The destruction of that lie comes when individuals begin to share it. It does not take long before words erode away the lie's veneer and it is shown for what it is. Then the liar is exposed as a liar from their heart. You see how that works? Eventually someone is going to call foul and the truth will prevail. But as long as everyone's playing along, the lie can perpetuate itself.

The other thing is how your heart wont allow you to use words out of term without them causing havoc on your mental and physical state. People who try to conceal their true feelings by using out of place words tend to have rough lives and inward physical problems. The stress of keeping a lie afloat is devastating. So your heart forces you to come clean through your words. Only the hardest of people can override this feature. Another thing words do is form pictures in our minds and hearts. You can close your eyes and only listen to someone describing something and your body will respond as if you are experiencing it because of the mental picture words help to make. There is a saying that goes, the pen is mightier than the sword. This is very true. Your tongue can get you in more trouble than your actions alone. Why do you think some lawyers refuse to let their clients take the stand and speak for themselves? Why do you think we include a card with the gifts we give? Words are powerful. The only enemy to words is the act of trying to change their meaning. As long as we keep our conversations in context, our words will always convey our heart's intentions.

You should seek to master your verbal expressions. Use every opportunity to practice displaying your heart's language. Make it a point to be the go to person when someone is need to help a struggling heart to find it's tongue. Framed Expressions designer poetry is a perfect way to show you know how to give the very best.

Friday, January 18, 2013

She Might Be Ignoring You Now But That Doesn't Have to Last...

 
Being ignored by a woman is not a fun experience, especially when you really feel as though you like her quite a bit. Being ignored by a woman you used to be in a relationship with is even worse, though, especially when you feel like you'd love to see if there was a chance that you might be able to have a relationship with her again. While her ignoring you might seem to be a clear sign that this is not going to happen, that is not always the case. Sometimes when you are being ignored by an ex girlfriend, it's just because you haven't really done anything to warrant her attention. However, if you DO find a way to warrant her attention, you might just find that she stops ignoring you and starts to give you the attention that you want from her.

How do you get to that point where she will pay attention to you again?

Well, it's not going to happen if you are:

a) Begging her to pay attention to you.

b) Acting as if you are mad at her because she is not paying attention to you.

c) Giving her all of your attention while she gives you none in return.

These are three things that guys do, though, when they are trying to get their ex girlfriend to stop ignoring them. These are not the kinds of behaviors that are going to warrant her giving you any of her attention. These are behaviors that are going to encourage her to keep on ignoring you and of course, that is not the way that you want it to be.

What are some better options?

a) Showing her a brand new you that causes her to be curious and thus, giving you the attention that you want from her.

b) Making her feel more attracted to you than ever before using methods that build real attraction with a woman.

c) Learning how to play hard to get when she starts to give you a little bit of attention here and there.

When you show your ex girlfriend a brand new you, it forces her to pay attention to you if nothing more than to satisfy her curiosity. When you use real methods that build attraction with a woman, she'll stop ignoring you because women don't typically ignore guys that they are attracted to on an instinctual level unless they are playing a little bit hard to get. And if you learn to play hard to get with her when she starts to give you some of her attention, it is going to make her "play the game" if you will and start to chase after you.