First off, you have to understand the origin of words. Infants begin their lives using noise to communicate with us. Our minds were far too underdeveloped to hold onto what those cries meant on into adulthood. Parents learn to investigate why their child is crying. When was the last time I fed them? Did the temperature change? Is their diaper soiled? Did another child enter their room and do something to them? These are easy things to pick up on. When a parent cannot come to a logical conclusion to continued crying, they go to the doctor for answers. So grunts and noises are not the best way to communicate. However, words are perfectly formed to carry our sentiments. That is exactly what they do.
Words are actually containers. Though our emotions are an immediate gauge of how our mental and physical state is, they can be somewhat misleading. You can show anger, happiness, sadness or scared emotions and never get to the real reason to the problem. Emotions are only a symptom of an issue and they can change like the wind. On the other hand, words can bypass all that clutter and pin point with laser precision what the problem is. No other medium of communication can do that with such surgical execution. As I stated earlier, people lie and some are very good at it. However, all things being equal, words will even unravel the lies that people tell. It is easy to keep up a lie when people are responding to it in action. The destruction of that lie comes when individuals begin to share it. It does not take long before words erode away the lie's veneer and it is shown for what it is. Then the liar is exposed as a liar from their heart. You see how that works? Eventually someone is going to call foul and the truth will prevail. But as long as everyone's playing along, the lie can perpetuate itself.
The other thing is how your heart wont allow you to use words out of term without them causing havoc on your mental and physical state. People who try to conceal their true feelings by using out of place words tend to have rough lives and inward physical problems. The stress of keeping a lie afloat is devastating. So your heart forces you to come clean through your words. Only the hardest of people can override this feature. Another thing words do is form pictures in our minds and hearts. You can close your eyes and only listen to someone describing something and your body will respond as if you are experiencing it because of the mental picture words help to make. There is a saying that goes, the pen is mightier than the sword. This is very true. Your tongue can get you in more trouble than your actions alone. Why do you think some lawyers refuse to let their clients take the stand and speak for themselves? Why do you think we include a card with the gifts we give? Words are powerful. The only enemy to words is the act of trying to change their meaning. As long as we keep our conversations in context, our words will always convey our heart's intentions.
You should seek to master your verbal expressions. Use every opportunity to practice displaying your heart's language. Make it a point to be the go to person when someone is need to help a struggling heart to find it's tongue. Framed Expressions designer poetry is a perfect way to show you know how to give the very best.
As scientifically and technologically progressive we are as a human race, the most important issue screaming for advancement is our current pattern of connecting and bonding with others. Statistically, 6 out of 10 marriages fail; others remain intact by supporting hidden agendas, and single people move in and out of relationships like a revolving door. There must come a time when we seek to expand our mind and our self out of conventional models of relating. Although convention need not be rejected since it is culturally/root based, the exploration of how we feel, and subsequent expansion of how we think is of greater service to us when we challenge our current views and consider healthy alternatives as we attract or invite others into our emotional environment.